Thursday, May 01, 2008

The victim

I see one of 3 possibilities for you:

  1. You call it quits and leave him like you have said so many times before. This is the best outcome of you and her and you know it. She deserves much better than what she has now. However I doubt this will happen because you have continued like this for so long you cannot dig yourself out of the mess you have created for yourself and for her.
  2. You go back to him and bide your time until she is ready to come back and you both leave him behind. In the meanwhile you just save that little nest egg for yourself and for her because you cannot come back with nothing. You would be foolish to return with nothing.
  3. You go back to him and you kick up and stink and fight like its the end for you both. Then when you both calm down things will slowly get back to normal while you pretend there is no problem. Until it comes back again. This is the most likely thing that will happen because its happened so many times before I have lost count. It is how you are, how it always has been and is all you know to do. Always a victim and never taking control of your own life. What a joke.

I feel sorry she is caught in this situation but I don't feel sorry for you. You need to grow up, take responsibility for your actions, stop running away from your problems and deal with it. It's gone on so long you must be tired of it by now.

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